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Learning to Say “NO” Led Me from Waitress to Writer
In the heart of the bustling metropolis, where the clinking of silverware echoed alongside the conversations of diners, I, a former waitress, found myself at a crossroads where I needed courage, self-discovery, and the strength to say “NO.”
My journey, marked by drama, emotion, and transformation, led me to a new chapter where the power of “NO” became my compass, directing me toward a life of writing and self-care.
For years, I had embraced my role as a waitress with dedication and unwavering commitment. Yet, the demands of the job were accompanied by an unremitting push to constantly say “YES”. Senior colleagues leaned on me for extra shifts and additional tasks, and my longing to excel mingled with my fear of disappointing them. The struggle was real, and it began to take a toll on my mental health.
Days turned into nights, and the line between my professional and personal life blurred. The constant “YES” were turning into a never-ending loop that left me emotionally drained and struggling to find balance. The very role that I had once enjoyed was now causing me mental distress. And therefore, I made a choice that would change my trajectory.
Leaving the waitress job behind wasn’t an easy choice. The security it provided was juxtaposed against the mental turmoil it was causing…
