Reframing Negative Thoughts: A Medium Guide to Challenging and Shifting Your Mindset

We’ve all been there.

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You’re in the middle of a perfectly normal day, and suddenly, a negative thought comes out of nowhere. Maybe it’s self-doubt, like “I’m not good enough” or “I’ll never succeed.” Or maybe it’s fear — “This is all going to fall apart” — even though there’s no reason to believe that.

I used to get stuck in those negative thought spirals. One tiny mishap would send me down a rabbit hole of overthinking and anxiety. It was exhausting. But then I discovered something amazing: I could actually challenge and reframe those thoughts, putting myself back in the driver’s seat of my mind.

Before we dive into the how, let’s start with a reality check. It’s impossible to completely eliminate negative thoughts. They’re part of the human experience. But what we can control is how we respond to them. We don’t have to let them dictate our emotions, actions, or self-worth. Trust me, learning to challenge and reframe these thoughts can make a world of difference in how you feel on a daily basis.

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